The Big Mistake Seniors and Their
Families Make
This isn't meant as a criticism of
anyone. It's simply pointing out a critical error that many people
make. I know because my family all made this very same mistake. The
mistake is this not recognizing caregiver burnout.
For four years. My mother took care my
dad on a daily basis. She was his primary and only caregiver. Toward
the end there were some signs that we all missed. Mom was not
herself. She was more edgy and touchy. She had begun to complain
about her health and things that she normally wouldn't complain
about. She had begun to get more forgetful. She said she wasn't
sleeping well. Just generally mom was not mom.
As it turned out mom became a
statistic. She was one of the 20% of senior caregivers who die before
the person they were taking care of. It was shocking and sad. We were
all extremely surprised, caught off guard because we had no idea that
she had gotten that bad.
We didn't know what to look for, we
didn't know what questions to ask and I only found out after the fact
that we weren't very different from millions of other families in the
United States. The common denominator for all of us is lack of
education. That's where One Senior Source comes in. For the last
eight months, we have been broadcasting on radio and television with
the goal of educating seniors and their families. While we don't know
everything, we do have a very good network of people we can call and
get the absolute right answers.
We suggest you call us and tell us your
story. Or listen to our radio show Saturdays Sundays at 10 AM, on 860
a.m. Utah's Big Talker. Or call us at 844-981-0099. E-mail me
Dennis@oneseniorsource.com.
Or visit the website www.oneseniorsource.com.
Until then, keep an eye on your senior caregivers. Don't let happen
to you, what happened to us.
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